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Some people said that it's better to say something direct and to the point than to keep someone guessing because his/her interpretation might be different from what we actually want to say.

but in my observation, many people will hate people who like to say something direct than who like to "cakap berlapik".

like me, I Iike to say directly what i want to say (this case with my family and to who that close with me only), but in writting, I like to "tulis" not direct to the point. hehe..



actually we must look into the situation. with who we want to talk. and if we want to "tegur seseorg tu scr direct", dont ever talk it in front of other people. if u do it- tegur sorg tu depn org ramai, dia mungkin akan terime teguran tu tapi in the same time dia akan benci kat si penegur tu. yelah, sape yg tak menyampah bile ade org jatuhkan maruah dia depan semua orang, walaupun memanglah bende yang dia buat tu salah.

so you must think properly either to say something direct or indirect... ok.. bye..